"The parties tend to find their support in exposing their facts and interests to the detriment of the other party, an attitude that is born from the lack of that I-win/you-win culture."
Reyes Coto Jimenez She is a lawyer and mediator specialized in Family and Health Mediation. He is a member of the Illustrious Bar Association of Seville and has publications in several magazines specialized in mediation. She graduated in Law from the Pablo de Olavide University of Seville and is currently a collaborator at the professional firm Abogados Campo&Carrasco.
Do citizens know mediation enough to make it their first alternative?
A: Not enough. There is still not enough information among citizens about what it is, how it works and the effects derived from the management and resolution of conflicts. through mediation. And we are all responsible for this situation: Public Administrations, political parties, the media and the social agents who interact most directly.
What does it take to be a mediator?
A: From a legal point of view, anyone who meets the legal requirements established in the current Mediation Law or in the regulations of each CC could be a mediator. AA. regarding family mediation. Now, from a personal point of view, it can be a mediator that person who sees mediation as a perspective or vision where the culture prevails that, to assert and win personal or/and professional interests, it does not mean that the other party has to lose. The mediator, in addition to having specific training, must be an honest and humble person, who feels the culture of agreement and dialogue as a tool to build positively.
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