{"id":46936,"date":"2026-08-21T13:53:13","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T11:53:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/?p=46936"},"modified":"2026-08-21T13:55:57","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T11:55:57","slug":"responsabilidad-colectiva-en-la-mediacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/ser-mediador\/responsabilidad-colectiva-en-la-mediacion\/","title":{"rendered":"Collective responsibility in mediation"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 estamos dejando de hacer todos? Hacia una verdadera corresponsabilidad en la mediaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hay\u00a0palabras\u00a0que\u00a0repetimos\u00a0como\u00a0mantras\u00a0\u2014<em>inter\u00e9s\u00a0superior del menor,\u00a0protecci\u00f3n,\u00a0coordinaci\u00f3n,\u00a0parentalidad\u00a0responsable<\/em>\u2014\u00a0pero\u00a0que, en la\u00a0pr\u00e1ctica, se\u00a0convierten\u00a0en\u00a0decorado\u00a0institucional.\u00a0Suena\u00a0bien. Queda\u00a0bien.\u00a0Pero\u00a0no\u00a0cambia\u00a0nada.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La&nbsp;verdad&nbsp;inc\u00f3moda&nbsp;es esta:&nbsp;cuando&nbsp;un menor queda&nbsp;atrapado&nbsp;en un&nbsp;conflicto&nbsp;de alta&nbsp;intensidad, no falla una persona. Falla un sistema entero.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El&nbsp;deporte&nbsp;nacional \u00e9s&nbsp;pasarse&nbsp;la&nbsp;pelota.&nbsp;En los casos&nbsp;dif\u00edciles, cada&nbsp;profesional&nbsp;tiene&nbsp;un refugio&nbsp;perfecto:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEsto&nbsp;le&nbsp;corresponde&nbsp;al&nbsp;juzgado.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEsto&nbsp;es cosa de&nbsp;servicios&nbsp;sociales.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEsto&nbsp;lo&nbsp;decidir\u00e1&nbsp;el&nbsp;psic\u00f3logo\/ga.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEsto&nbsp;lo&nbsp;resolver\u00e1&nbsp;la&nbsp;mediaci\u00f3n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201d&nbsp;Esto&nbsp;lo&nbsp;arreglar\u00e1n&nbsp;los&nbsp;abogados\/das.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y&nbsp;mientras&nbsp;todos&nbsp;se&nbsp;protegen,&nbsp;<strong>el menor queda&nbsp;desprotegido<\/strong>. La&nbsp;responsabilidad&nbsp;colectiva&nbsp;empieza&nbsp;cuando&nbsp;dejamos&nbsp;de jugar al \u201cesto&nbsp;no es&nbsp;m\u00edo\u201d y&nbsp;aceptamos&nbsp;que&nbsp;<strong>si un&nbsp;ni\u00f1o&nbsp;sufre, es de&nbsp;todos<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La&nbsp;mediaci\u00f3n&nbsp;en alta&nbsp;conflictividad&nbsp;no es un&nbsp;requisito&nbsp;previo&nbsp;ni un&nbsp;formalismo. Es un&nbsp;espacio&nbsp;donde&nbsp;se ve \u2014sin&nbsp;filtros\u2014 lo que el sistema no&nbsp;quiere&nbsp;mirar:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>progenitores\u00a0desbordados,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>narrativas\u00a0destructivas,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>menores\u00a0atrapados\u00a0en\u00a0medio,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>profesionales\u00a0que\u00a0llegan\u00a0tarde,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>decisiones\u00a0que se\u00a0toman\u00a0por\u00a0inercia.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La&nbsp;mediaci\u00f3n&nbsp;no arregla&nbsp;milagrosamente,&nbsp;pero&nbsp;<strong>revela<\/strong>. Y lo que revela incomoda.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por&nbsp;eso&nbsp;algunos&nbsp;prefieren&nbsp;evitarla.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Todos&nbsp;hablamos&nbsp;de&nbsp;\u00e9tica&nbsp;profesional.&nbsp;Pero&nbsp;la&nbsp;\u00e9tica&nbsp;real no&nbsp;est\u00e1&nbsp;en los&nbsp;c\u00f3digos,&nbsp;sino&nbsp;en las&nbsp;decisiones&nbsp;dif\u00edciles:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>decir\u00a0\u201cno\u201d\u00a0cuando\u00a0todos\u00a0quieren\u00a0un \u201cs\u00ed\u201d,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>parar un\u00a0proceso\u00a0aunque\u00a0genere\u00a0enfado,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>no\u00a0permitir\u00a0que un menor\u00a0sea\u00a0usado\u00a0como argumento,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>no\u00a0acelerar\u00a0un\u00a0procedimiento\u00a0solo para \u201cquitarse\u00a0el caso de encima\u201d.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La&nbsp;\u00e9tica&nbsp;no es un&nbsp;discurso. No es un&nbsp;powerpoint. Es un&nbsp;l\u00edmite.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y en alta&nbsp;conflictividad,&nbsp;<strong>poner&nbsp;l\u00edmites&nbsp;salva a los&nbsp;menores<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El sistema no falla por falta de recursos: falla por falta de&nbsp;coraje&nbsp;Recursos&nbsp;faltan, s\u00ed.&nbsp;Pero&nbsp;lo que&nbsp;m\u00e1s&nbsp;falta es&nbsp;<strong>valent\u00eda&nbsp;profesional<\/strong>:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>valent\u00eda\u00a0para\u00a0coordinarse,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>valent\u00eda\u00a0para incomodar,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>valent\u00eda\u00a0para\u00a0decir\u00a0lo que\u00a0nadie\u00a0quiere\u00a0o\u00edr,\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>valent\u00eda\u00a0para\u00a0asumir\u00a0que solos no\u00a0podemos.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La&nbsp;responsabilidad&nbsp;colectiva&nbsp;no es un&nbsp;concepto&nbsp;amable. Es un&nbsp;desaf\u00edo&nbsp;directo:&nbsp;<strong>\u00bfestamos&nbsp;dispuestos&nbsp;a&nbsp;hacer&nbsp;lo que toca,&nbsp;aunque&nbsp;no&nbsp;sea&nbsp;c\u00f3modo?<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo que&nbsp;realmente&nbsp;protege&nbsp;a un menor<strong>&nbsp;.<\/strong>No es un informe&nbsp;brillante. No es una sentencia impecable. No es una&nbsp;mediaci\u00f3n&nbsp;perfecta. No es un&nbsp;protocolo&nbsp;nuevo.No&nbsp;es un&nbsp;cambio&nbsp;de nombre de una&nbsp;instituci\u00f3n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo que&nbsp;protege&nbsp;a un menor es&nbsp;<strong>la&nbsp;coherencia&nbsp;del sistema<\/strong>. La suma de&nbsp;decisiones&nbsp;valientes. La&nbsp;capacidad&nbsp;de cada&nbsp;profesional&nbsp;de mirar&nbsp;m\u00e1s&nbsp;all\u00e1&nbsp;de&nbsp;su&nbsp;despacho. La&nbsp;voluntad&nbsp;de no&nbsp;dejar&nbsp;que el&nbsp;conflicto&nbsp;adulto&nbsp;colonice&nbsp;la vida del&nbsp;ni\u00f1o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En alta&nbsp;conflictividad,&nbsp;<strong>no basta con ser&nbsp;buen&nbsp;profesional<\/strong>.&nbsp;Eso&nbsp;es lo&nbsp;m\u00ednimo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo que marca la diferencia es&nbsp;<strong>ser corresponsable<\/strong>. Y&nbsp;eso&nbsp;implica&nbsp;dejar&nbsp;de mirar&nbsp;hacia&nbsp;otro&nbsp;lado,&nbsp;dejar&nbsp;de&nbsp;proteger&nbsp;parcelas&nbsp;y&nbsp;empezar&nbsp;a&nbsp;proteger&nbsp;a&nbsp;quien&nbsp;realmente&nbsp;importa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Porque&nbsp;cuando&nbsp;un menor&nbsp;est\u00e1&nbsp;en&nbsp;juego, la pregunta no es:&nbsp;<em>\u201c\u00bfQu\u00e9&nbsp;me toca&nbsp;hacer&nbsp;a&nbsp;m\u00ed?\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;sino:&nbsp;<strong>\u201c\u00bfQu\u00e9&nbsp;estamos&nbsp;dejando&nbsp;de&nbsp;hacer&nbsp;todos?\u201d<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Por:&nbsp;<\/strong>Jordi&nbsp;Casajoana&nbsp;Feliu&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Visita la web de <a href=\"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/\">EIM Escuela Internacional de Mediaci\u00f3n<\/a> para saber m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tambi\u00e9n puedes ver en LinkedIn a nuestro docente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/jordi-casajoana-a21b5834\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Jordi Casajoana | LinkedIn<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are we all failing to do? Towards true shared responsibility in mediation. There are words we repeat like mantras\u2014best interests of the child, protection, coordination, responsible parenting\u2014but which, in practice, become mere institutional window dressing. It sounds good. It looks good. But nothing changes. The uncomfortable truth is this: when a child is caught in a high-intensity conflict, it&#039;s not one person who fails. It&#039;s an entire system. The national sport is passing the buck. In difficult cases, every professional has a perfect refuge: \u201cThis is for the court.\u201d \u201cThis is for social services.\u201d \u201cThe psychologist will decide this.\u201d \u201cMediation will resolve this.\u201d \u201dThe lawyers will sort this out.\u201d And while everyone protects themselves, the child is left unprotected. <a title=\"Collective responsibility in mediation\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/ser-mediador\/responsabilidad-colectiva-en-la-mediacion\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Responsabilidad colectiva en la Mediaci\u00f3n\">Read more<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":61,"featured_media":46938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46936","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ser-mediador"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46936","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/61"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46936"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46936\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46940,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46936\/revisions\/46940"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46936"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46936"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eimediacion.edu.es\/eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46936"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}